May 15
Today was fun. Then again, so was yesterday. And something occurred to me yesterday when we went to a new park and Houston began his routine of "why...?"
"Why did God put no fish in the pond?"
"Why did God put this (artificial) waterfall here?"
"Why is that car green?"
I realized that he knows that God is in charge. It was heartening to know that he attributed about 70% of the source for our answers to God.
Wednesday we rode the electric scooter to visit my good friend Christine. In a city so big with so few churches, we need travel to see our friends. So, load the kids onto "flash" and 45 minutes later we zoomed our way through many city lights and arrived in one piece. In all honesty it's not much faster on flash than a regular bike but I can handle Hudson better because I can sit still rather than peddle. Of course, my sweet Houston ignored my specific instructions (that he was capable of following) to be careful and not drop the bag on the floor that contained my breakfast, a liter of green smoothie. I really had to contain my hunger driven anger as my breakfast leaked all over my bag and everything inside. Once inside, we cuddled together a while to assure him that everything was ok between us.
Visiting with Christine is always such a breath of fresh air for me. I love her family and I appreciate how honest she is with her own shortcomings. It's heartening to listen to how she seeks God, works on her own sin and relationship with her husband/neighbors/kids in an uplifting way. Although I love the diversity of the international community and doing life with so many people different than me has broadened my perspective, sometimes I miss the comfort of likeminded people who can encourage me in The Lord. So, 45 minutes is totally worth the drive!
On Thursday after leaving my boys with a (very expensive) sitter for the first time ever (for so long- 8 hours), I spontaneously decided to buy a bird. Every time a bird alights on our balcony the kids go crazy with excitement, running to the window to get a closer view. I had talked with Daniel about a hamster, to which he agreed, so I thought a bird should be fine (in double checked with him just in case as he hadn't appreciated me getting a baby duck early in our marriage without telling him).
Trekked to the bird & flower market on my bicycle with the boys and picked out my own childhood bird, a cockatiel, with its cage and food for $45. Of course, once we had a squawking bird in our house, Hudson is afraid of it. Silly boy!
Today (Friday) after two missed days of quiet time, I woke to the sound of a harp on my iPad alarm and the title, "seek God" flashing at me. I sat up in bed and managed to just read one chapter this morning since it was so confusing. I'll post my notes below at the end of my post.
Though raining outside, we ventured out on the subway three stops to Valerie's house. Her two youngest (same ages as mine) were home and they played for an hour while we chatted. It was a nice visit, but getting home was messy.
Hudson wailed and squirmed the whole way to, on and out of the subway while everyone looked at me as if I were a bad mother who just left her child in the stroller to scream. One grannie even motioned to me that I should rock him and another that he was going to hurt himself if I didn't get him out. I just had too many bags and we were only going one stop to get groceries and lunch at Green and Safe. It was too complicated to get him out at that moment.
Finally, we managed to exit the subway out to the light drizzling rain outside. I picked up Hudson with one arm and barely prevented the tears which threatened to burst from Houston like a damn ready to break as he sniffed with a quivering lip,
"Maybe my legs are tired"
Into the stroller my three year old scrambled as I held a now content Hudson in one arm and pushed his older brother with the other as rain sprinkled on us for four blocks to the grocery store/restaurant.
Fast forward through lunch and shopping to where I simply have too many things to take the subway back in the rain and I had already been waiting 15 minutes in the rain for a taxi. I truly was ready to just walk the 45 minutes home in the rain when suddenly, I spotted a free taxi! After settling in, I told Houston,
"Houston, lets say thank you to God for sending us a taxi!"
He gazed up at me with inquisitive eyes and replied, "mommy, did God call us a taxi?"
His reasoning really amuses me at times.
By the time we got home and settled he was back to his normal happy self. We made chocolate chick pea flour muffins together and ate them for dinner and then we made a really neat sofa play-fort with the cushions. While I tidied up, I could hear Houston singing loudly as he jumped on the sofa, "Shine, Jesus, Shine! Fill this land with the fathers glory!"
On a sadder note, my sisters aren't doing well and I'm sad. I think the saddest part is that, no matter how much I love them and try to communicate to them that I love and accept them no matter what choices they make, I feel they hide from me because they don't want me to be sad with their choices. But, firstly, it always gets back to me somehow. And secondly, why do they keep ignoring God when he is always the answer? Sigh. I don't even think that they read this blog that I started primarily for them. I was going to say that today was a happy day (and it really was!) but it ended on a sad note.
1 John 3:1-3, 6, 9-10, 14, 16-24
"See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him."
So this is why people look oddly at me when I talk about my relationship with God. Although I always preface when I talk about God with something that hopefully makes me sound understanding and accepting of people with other beliefs (or lack of) I don't really hide my Christianity. As a result, sometimes people look at me like I'm from another planet (though they try to hide it) when I talk about spiritual matters.
"Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is."
Ah, how encouraging that we will be perfected in Christ's presence. I feel that perhaps, since we "see through a glass darkly" now, the glaring clarity of the world sometimes obstructs our vision for God. But, when we see Him face to face, the world will vanish away in his light and we will be like him!
"All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure. No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him. No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God. This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not God’s child, nor is anyone who does not love their brother and sister. "
But, how does this square with grace? It almost seems as if our works are what prove our faith and without them, we aren't truly children of God. I need to do more research on this.
"We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death. This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. This is how we know that we belong to the truth and how we set our hearts at rest in his presence: If our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything. Dear friends, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God and receive from him anything we ask, because we keep his commands and do what pleases him. And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us. The one who keeps God’s commands lives in him, and he in them. And this is how we know that he lives in us: We know it by the Spirit he gave us."
I take this to mean that, as Christ followers, we try our very best to show love to other people in every way that we can. We will fail but We shouldn't purposefully turn from God's commands. I think when we no l longer desire and try to please God, perhaps this is what it means that we don't have his spirit in us. If we desire and try and sometimes fail but then seek His guidance & forgiveness and try again then I believe we are truly children of God. Its not due to our works that we are saved but it is by them that others can see that Gods spirit lives within us.